Simply Listen, Be Kind Not Right. And Take No Shit. The Illusion of Control Masks Patterns of Fear and Shame, Instead Create The Calm Inner Space To Hold and Surrender To The Uncertainty of A Moment To Moment Mystery. That is Whole Presence

Isn't That Interesting?

People try to control others in an attempt (not necessarily conscious) to avoid facing their own fear and shame. Do you know someone controlling?
Maybe it’s you. Maybe it *was* you.

Maybe it’s a parent, a partner, a colleague, or friend?

Notice who it is you’re thinking of as you read.

Instead of facing their fears or their shame, they find it more tolerable to exert power and control over another.

This act creates the illusion that they are worthy and deserving of [insert outcome of control here] — maybe it’s being right, maybe it’s keeping you in their life, maybe it’s proving their point, maybe it’s having you submit to them in some way.

If someone needs to exert power over another it undoubtedly means that they feel powerless in themselves.

All it does is create an illusion.

Isn't That Interesting?
That illusion helps them avoid a belief that lies within:

I am undeserving,

I am unworthy,

I am not good enough,

I am powerless.
Control does not exist without shame and fear.

It breeds off of it.

If this is you, might you turn safely towards your fears and shame. Might you begin to get to know them better so that they don’t rule your life. Ignoring, denying calls or avoiding them does not make anything go away, it intensifies it, even if you can’t see it.

If this is someone you know, how do you participate in this dance?

Isn't That Interesting?

The Return To Wholeness is Self Knowledge
The Full Grounded Presence of You
This Is Your Birth Rite,
Realise This For Your Self,
Start Now.
No Time Except The Present.

Unravel Past Patterns,
Untie The Knots,
Explore More of You in The Descent
and Let The Truth of You
Flow.

Get More Curious,
About Your True Self
Question Inherited Patterns
Question The Gifts of Family of Origin Conditioning
(Which We All Have, No Biggy....)
Question triggers,
question responses and habitual addictions and reactions

Meet, Greet and Welcome Whatever Arises
Isn't That Interesting?
Forgive, Your Self, Do Not Judge
Hold Your Self Accountable To A Standard of
Growth, Grace and Restoration
(not perfection)
Meet Your Self With Compassion,
No Shame, No Blame, No Finger Pointing Projection
Accept Your Return Journey To The Centre of Self,
Accept Warts and All, full some and wholesome,
Accept and Taste The Whole Enchilada,
of you,
enjoy every morsel and mindfully chew ever so slowly
Appreciate Be Sated Content with
The Beauty Full Unique Recipe of You
(What a dish!)

Digest and Rest
You Are Full, for now.
But Cycles repeat as The Hunger returns
Isn't That Interesting?
Let go of the shit, create inner space, absorb what nourishes,

What Patterns Do You Now Choose
To Hear and See and Learn From?
And grow and change and expand your own
calm abiding inner space?

Realise This and Know
This Wholeness is Freely available
Right Now.
If You Choose To Listen
To Peel, Heal and Reveal
To Lay Bare, To Be Naked and Honest
With Self
Isn't That Interesting?

To Welcome The Return To Your Unconditioned True Nature
Which Is
Embodied Grounded On Point Repeating Rock Solid
Unwavering Deep Love.
Isn't That Interesting?
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