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ATMA GNANAM is the direct path to Self-Realisation.
Liberation, moksha, is freely available now.
To all.

As you expand through relative choices,
all perfectly fine and needed,
we embrace The Absolute.

The Authentic Inner Union With Self and
Realise That Love Is All

Breaking the time barrier ATMA GNANAM
answers the question of existence 
and what it means to be a whole human.

Revealing the true immutable nature of every human being,
ever present and ever changeless,
the teaching about the Self shining as ‘I’.


As the seer of time,
Self outshines and outlives everything.

That Self-Knowledge still survives is testimony 
to its profound nature
and the tenacity of the human spirit.

This "end of yoga" the final union with Self
is widely available.
It has always been present.

When relating as Love, not for love
this yolk of secure inner wholeness, 
a sacred home coming within each individual firstly
 is knowing that your already self realised partner 
will also engage with you from their calm still centre.

They will show care about your 
ridiculous misinterpretation of anything.

The hurts may still be there.
The anger may still be there.
But there is always more space to hold, stay and listen,
to work through any momentary lack of sacred union.

And you feel in your heart centre and your whole somatic body
that it's a safe space to do all of the above.
You are seen and witnessed and heard exactly as you are. 
You are mutually held always with and as Love.
Respectfully, sacredly and honestly.

Take radical responsibility,
Be kind, not always right. 
Listen to allow and accept.
Possibly understand 
if your lived experience also allows. 

Ultimately though in The Self Realised Absolute

"If there is still a problem, you are it."

This is where you will soon feel true intimacy.
Can I Expand To Be?
Can I truly embrace the absolute of my own Innocent Self? 
Or am I still living a relatively comfortable life 
still with others unconscious terms and conditions running the show?

Hold The Clear Cleansing Mirror Up To Self. 
Take absolute ownership, of Your Self, 
then choose even deeper radical 
response ability.

Secure attachment is not being obedient, compliant or "nice".
Nor is it conforming nor compromising.
It is Being and remaining True, simply realising
your own Unveiled Self has got this
whilst staying connected to your inner core values.

Secure attachment is staying right there,
with open eyes, with open heart,
no matter how much it hurts or 
tries to tell you who you are not. 

It's a commitment where you can easily 
close the door behind you and lock it,
and throw away the key.
Secure In Grounded Self Knowledge 
and Being The I Am 
As Love. 

That kind of mutual Self commitment has 
10,000 times the possibility of solving any conflict.

It's not how much you may argue;
it's if you know how to be calm, kind, 
can listen with an open heart and expand your perspective 
to embrace the absolute simplicity of The Mystery. 
The INTUITIVE Not Knowing. 

And that you have a partner who can Be
That Too

That's secure attachment.

If you still have an insecure attachment,
a frowning furrowed brow, 
a drowning insecurity and clingy neediness
a demand to control and dictate, 
a lack of trust in Self or Creation
a desire to be always right, not kind,

Don't project onto others 
Do not gaslight and bully
Do not inflict unhealed wounds or trauma 
or unconscious family of origin conditioning 
onto Others. 

If you choose to engage in any of these
You have a far larger problem than the topic 
you may be arguing about.

Do you dare to take radical responsibility 
to simply embody and live as
The Absolute Truth?

Moksha, Liberation, Inner Freedom
Be The Love 
without terms and conditions?

"If there is still a problem, you are it"

Dive deeper, be stiller, do the inner work, 
create your Own True Calm and Spacious North
Surrender to Self, the inner source and your own true nature

Sometimes when we try to help those we love who are hurting,
we unknowingly end up hurting them more.

We make them feel small by making the problem bigger than them,
and we cement their helplessness by trying to take away the pain.

That's what makes it a treasure to 
find someone who truly sees you
pain, faults and all
but doesn't want to fix you.

When you're hurting, 
they don’t shrink back from your pain.
They accept you for where you are and what you are.
There is no agenda,..
There is no manipulation...
There is simple direct clear intention in aligned energy and pattern 
no hope that you will change “for your own good,"
no deeper prompting on their part to “help you."

Rather they see you as a capable being, 
as a powerful soul who owns their shit.

"You've So Got This"
 
And I am absolutely here to support you

They see you as bigger than your past life experiences 
and even your destiny.

They honour your non harmful choices 
to Self and Others
and honour you as you are.

This is the most loving thing we can do for others:
to see them in the best and brightest light.

People don't need fixing, they need freeing.

When you unconditionally love and 
totally accept others as they are
without needing to change them 
or help them fix what's wrong, 
they feel the message,

"Stay, you are seen and accepted."

From The Vault
November 2018
Spectrum and Spirals


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