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Without the feminine, the masculine becomes a hardened shell that lacks empathy and deep relational and communication skills.
The root of a man’s feminine is in his ability to open to his mother’s love.
Without a man being connected to his feminine, he will never be able to be the relational partner for his women that they desire.
He will either mistreat and manipulate the feminine in displays of power.
He will not cherish the feminine.
Or he will be hyper anxious in the wake of feminine energy, using women as three dimensional pursuits of his own soul.
A man’s soul lies in his feminine embodiment.
His ability to open up to his feminine.
His ability to open to his mother’s love.
When we do not have a healthy relationship to our own feminine, it means we’re likely protected and guarded in relationship to our mother, or early experiences with our mother.
There were ruptures that took place with the feminine in our own life that have not been healed.
As a man in relationship, we’re ultimately trying to fall back in love with our mothers.
This is why, men will either avoid relationships or never be able to be without them, as ways we avoid integrating the early ruptures that took place with our own mothers.
A healthy relationship to love and relationships comes down to a healthy ability to receive the feminine.
Actually, to let the feminine into our own hearts.
If we do not learn how to cultivate our own feminine, as men, we end up USING women.
Hear that again: if you’re a man without a relationship to his own healthy feminine, you will use women as a way to heal what you have not yet healed with your own mother.
Wounds in the feminine can either happen as a NEGLECT WOUND or an ENMESHMENT WOUND.
A man completely disconnected from his own feminine will probably have a feminine neglect wound.
A perceived rejection, abandonment or abuse from the feminine.
The feminine is weakness. I can’t trust the feminine.
A man who lives in his toxic feminine might have an enmeshment wound.
He comes across as a more feminine male who is deeply connected to his feminine, but in an unhealthy way because he has this unhealthy co-dependent tangling with his mother that needs to become untangled so that he can relate to the feminine in more of a healthy way.
With men who constantly seek out women in unhealthy ways, they’re very likely, subconsciously, looking to restore the love connection with mom that has been broken.
Our ability to receive love from our mothers and open our bodies and hearts to her is our ability to receive the feminine.
Something to even ponder, the more a man is disconnected from his own mother (his own feminine), the more he may enter the dating arena to conquer women and to obtain superiority over women.
Our ability to relate to the feminine in a healthy way, as well as build a healthy relationship to our own feminine, is determined by the somatic experience we feel embodied in the wake of our mothers, or memories of our mothers.
Healthy masculinity is not possible without this feminine relationship.
Unhealthy masculine is masculinity that rejects the feminine.
It’s masculine force without compassionate feminine awareness.
This is when the masculine lacks safety. It has not cracked open to their own feminine, therefore it’s forceful without the empathy, connection and depth of relating that truly creates safety for the feminine to blossom.
A man who does not have a relationship to his own feminine is a man who has not yet died.
Read that again: a man who does not have a relationship to his own feminine is a man who has not yet died.
You can’t trust a man who hasn’t died.
And this man can’t create safety for the feminine either.
Our ability to be safe, and create safety, comes down to our willingness to face our own death and cultivate our own internal safety and security around this death.
True integration of healthy masculine also requires a death through the feminine.
Without this death through the feminine, masculine energy will be more juvenile, lack depth, lack communication, lack safety, lack emotional intelligence, and lack empathy.
Also, you will use the feminine in relationship for your own selfish pursuits, when truly, what you desire is to open your heart to the love of your mother in a way you can actually receive.
But your guarded heart, your disembodiment, stoicism, rigidity, and lack of fluidity, comes down to the unprocessed hurts you endured with the feminine that have left you at war with your own emotional body.
The root of a man’s feminine is in his ability to open to his mother’s love.
Without a man being connected to his feminine, he will never be able to be the relational partner for his women that they desire.
He will either mistreat and manipulate the feminine in displays of power.
He will not cherish the feminine.
Or he will be hyper anxious in the wake of feminine energy, using women as three dimensional pursuits of his own soul.
A man’s soul lies in his feminine embodiment.
His ability to open up to his feminine.
His ability to open to his mother’s love.
When we do not have a healthy relationship to our own feminine, it means we’re likely protected and guarded in relationship to our mother, or early experiences with our mother.
There were ruptures that took place with the feminine in our own life that have not been healed.
A mother’s betrayal. Abandonment. Rejection. Shaming. Criticism. Boundary violations. Constant intrusions.
As a man in relationship, we’re ultimately trying to fall back in love with our mothers.
This is why, men will either avoid relationships or never be able to be without them, as ways we avoid integrating the early ruptures that took place with our own mothers.
A healthy relationship to love and relationships comes down to a healthy ability to receive the feminine.
Actually, to let the feminine into our own hearts.
If we do not learn how to cultivate our own feminine, as men, we end up USING women.
Hear that again: if you’re a man without a relationship to his own healthy feminine, you will use women as a way to heal what you have not yet healed with your own mother.
Wounds in the feminine can either happen as a NEGLECT WOUND or an ENMESHMENT WOUND.
A man completely disconnected from his own feminine will probably have a feminine neglect wound.
A perceived rejection, abandonment or abuse from the feminine.
The feminine is weakness. I can’t trust the feminine.
A man who lives in his toxic feminine might have an enmeshment wound.
And he is a people pleaser of his own mother, which leads to his inability to stand in his truth.
He comes across as a more feminine male who is deeply connected to his feminine, but in an unhealthy way because he has this unhealthy co-dependent tangling with his mother that needs to become untangled so that he can relate to the feminine in more of a healthy way.
With men who constantly seek out women in unhealthy ways, they’re very likely, subconsciously, looking to restore the love connection with mom that has been broken.
Our ability to receive love from our mothers and open our bodies and hearts to her is our ability to receive the feminine.
Something to even ponder, the more a man is disconnected from his own mother (his own feminine), the more he may enter the dating arena to conquer women and to obtain superiority over women.
He is acting out his feminine neglect wound sexually and romantically in subconscious and covert ways.
Opening to our feminine may mean simply opening our bodies and hearts to the hurt we received, because if we don’t open our bodies and hearts to the hurt, this avoidance gets acted out in other ways such as mistreating the feminine or never trusting women and never being able to have a healthy relationship.
Opening to our feminine may mean simply opening our bodies and hearts to the hurt we received, because if we don’t open our bodies and hearts to the hurt, this avoidance gets acted out in other ways such as mistreating the feminine or never trusting women and never being able to have a healthy relationship.
Our ability to relate to the feminine in a healthy way, as well as build a healthy relationship to our own feminine, is determined by the somatic experience we feel embodied in the wake of our mothers, or memories of our mothers.
Healthy masculinity is not possible without this feminine relationship.
Unhealthy masculine is masculinity that rejects the feminine.
It’s masculine force without compassionate feminine awareness.
This is when the masculine lacks safety. It has not cracked open to their own feminine, therefore it’s forceful without the empathy, connection and depth of relating that truly creates safety for the feminine to blossom.
A man who does not have a relationship to his own feminine is a man who has not yet died.
Read that again: a man who does not have a relationship to his own feminine is a man who has not yet died.
You can’t trust a man who hasn’t died.
And this man can’t create safety for the feminine either.
Our ability to be safe, and create safety, comes down to our willingness to face our own death and cultivate our own internal safety and security around this death.
True integration of healthy masculine also requires a death through the feminine.
Without this death through the feminine, masculine energy will be more juvenile, lack depth, lack communication, lack safety, lack emotional intelligence, and lack empathy.
Also, you will use the feminine in relationship for your own selfish pursuits, when truly, what you desire is to open your heart to the love of your mother in a way you can actually receive.
But your guarded heart, your disembodiment, stoicism, rigidity, and lack of fluidity, comes down to the unprocessed hurts you endured with the feminine that have left you at war with your own emotional body.
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