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  1. Stay silent when something feels off. Silence exposes people faster than questions. 2. Pause before replying . The person who controls the pace controls the conversation. 3. Share very limited information . People cannot manipulate what they do not know. 4. Watch patterns, not words . One repeated behaviour reveals more than a thousand explanations. 5. Observe how they treat people who cannot benefit them . That shows their real personality. 6. Ask short questions. Simple questions force honest answers. 7. Never repeat yourself. If they did not respect it the first time, repeating will not help. 8. Keep your face neutral . Being unreadable removes their advantage. 9. Stay emotionally calm . Emotional reactions give people control over you. 10. Remove access quietly . Distance reveals intentions faster than confrontation. 11. Use eye contact with intention . Brief, steady eye contact signals quiet authority. 12. Say “no” directly . No explanation makes the boundary stronger ....

Don’t try to change, control or convert anyone.  Allow people to be exactly who they are.  Allow each moment to be exactly as it is.  Do not try to manipulate, expect or project any limiting myopic attachments.  Your part is to pay attention,  feel each moment fully,  by listening and receiving  and see if who they are right now,  meets your standard for relational intelligence. Does their fully felt and connected energy  meet your alignments for connection, care, respect, intimacy and love.  And then provide or deny access accordingly.  Simple self respect,  simple self worth,  simple unwavering consciousness.  Connect from love with what is actually here.  Stop trying to fix it, change it, get over it, or deny it.  Be still, be tender, be vulnerable, be real.  Simply Fall into the abyss of The Present Moment.  "All love is expansion, all selfishness is contraction. Love is therefore the only law ...

“ Every first draft is perfect because all the first draft has to do is exist.  It's perfect in its existence. The only way it could be imperfect would be to NOT exist.” - Jane Smiley My Type of DLT Laboratory SCIENCE EXPERIMENTS! 

“Lightly Child,  go forward, lightly”  ~ Aldous Huxley  

Life Long Learners connect with ambitious people, being productive with their own challenging goals. Authentic life long learners, with personal integrity, are not stuck or attached to the past or anxiously trying hard to control or manipulate, a yet to occur future. Satisfied active learners live wholly in the now and connect to others fully in This One Bare Moment.  Connections focused on growth don’t have time to judge others. They comfortably stay in their own lane. Authentic growth orientated connections, with aligned core values, have even less time for unnecessary drama, gossip, over sharing, crisis or chaos. Authentic connections are content with their own choices and life priorities. A liberated consciousness realises there is enough space for all to be satisfied, once those trying waaaaay to hard to win at life, get out of the compete, compare and control rut of competitive dominance and doing whatever it "takes takes takes".   Ambitious satisfied connections fo...

Let Them by Cassie Phillips Just Let them. If they want to choose something or someone over you, LET THEM. If they want to go weeks without talking to you, LET THEM. If they are okay with never seeing you, LET THEM. If they are okay with always putting themselves first, LET THEM. If they are showing you who they are and not what you perceived them to be, LET THEM. If they want to follow the crowd, LET THEM. If they want to judge or misunderstand you, LET THEM. If they act like they can live without you, LET THEM. If they want to walk out of your life and leave, hold the door open, AND LET THEM. Let them lose you. You were never theirs because you were always your own. So let them. Let them show you who they truly are, not tell you. Let them prove how worthy they are of your time. Let them make the necessary steps to be a part of your life. Let them earn your forgiveness. Let them call you to talk about ordinary things. Let them take you out on a Thursday. Let them talk about anything a...

 

K I N T S U G I  we’re all in this together & it starts with you!   

Why worry or hurry?  In Tuncurry!  The Best Universal Learning Start Ups!!!  Time for a little refresher on manifesting change, parking spots,  and a daily dream come true. Don't think about it... "thinking" means you are yet to realise, there is NOTHING to realise...  It is already done. You already ARE whole and complete.  Simply By Being Born.  So Detach From Thought, completely!  Stop all that none sense right now...  Keep showing up, of course,  being your Best, of course,  every day in every way, of course,   as it is already done. Absolutely OF COURSE.  Living Wholly Beyond Thought, is THE only reality,  so stop "thinking" and simply Be  what YOU already are,  whole and complete and enough exactly as YOU are.  For even simpler and then the simplest,   flow fully as the living magic,  the endless mystery  and beyond thought  or reason  as the undivided subtle vis...

S E L F   C A R E   I S   S E L F   K N O W L E D G E Who Am I? Really? Once Realized, Once Learned, Once Embodied, Once Answered There Is NO Going Back. #atmavidya  

Who Am I?  Really?  At My Most Raw and Real Fundamental Core? When All Expectations are Removed? When All Conditioning Is Removed? When All Labels Are Removed?  When All Intergenerational BS Is Removed?  When I Have Returned To Wholeness? When I Am Vulnerable, Surrendered To Self and Uncertain about A God Damned Thing?  Yeah Baby, Just Who TF Am I...?  Feel, Reveal and Heal Be Joy, Be Grounded, Be Raw & Real Smile Gently, Cry Freely, Laugh Loudly It Is ALL OK! Why So Serious...? Unless It Is... From Love, NOT For Love From Totally Enough, NOT a Leaky Deficit From Wholeness, NOT Perfection. Simple, See? Then Walk Hand In Hand,  Sensual Sleepers, Parallel Rails, Never Merging With An Equal. @atmavidya   "Those persons are yogis, who before giving up the body are able to check the forces of desire and anger; and they alone are happy." BG 5.23 ✨ pic.twitter.com/FS1q7eN0BE — Bhagavad Gita  (@GitaShlokas) June 8, 2023

Updated From The "Love Our Town" Vault circa 2015 It’s simple to love unconditionally when we are unattached to how things should be. That’s why the Universe rewards us with flow when we remove our attachments to outcomes, to how things should play out or look like, so that we can simply share FROM love more freely.  Remain open to each bare moment and ask, "What would Love Do?" And remember, Love is Fiercely Self Compassionate, firstly. Whilst exploring, processing, feeling, allowing and embracing my own deep, dark, yucky painful feelings over the years, I’ve had people tell me, advise me, warn me, that I’m too sensitive, too deep, too negative, too emotional, too "trapped in ego"; that I’m troubled, broken, un-enlightened, sick, even mentally ill.  Yes, I regard the 17 months I spent in those institutions as a wonderful time of growth and healing.  I remain grateful to those who have either worked in or have walked that path. I do understand our collecti...

The word "one" has two types of meaning. It can mean exclusivism as in "the only one" which excludes all others. Our way IS The Way.  Or it can be unity as "all is one".  Universal True Nature which includes every creature, every thing within One Universe, as all is One, included.  The One Religious God of conversion based monotheism is exclusive. The material, outward and special congregation of division. Our way or The Highway. Our beliefs are right. Our faith is righteous. Our sales and products and our ways are The One. If you are not with us, if you are not on board, if you choose a different way then you are against us and we will exclude you, or sell hard to you and try to convert you to our one exclusive, elite and special, only way. There is no space for diversity. There is limited critical questioning of what you have been taught or shown by elders, others or society. There is no multiple intelligence or asking of better questions, and being Ok w...

 Why choose anything but Self Love?