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  1. Stay silent when something feels off. Silence exposes people faster than questions. 2. Pause before replying . The person who controls the pace controls the conversation. 3. Share very limited information . People cannot manipulate what they do not know. 4. Watch patterns, not words . One repeated behaviour reveals more than a thousand explanations. 5. Observe how they treat people who cannot benefit them . That shows their real personality. 6. Ask short questions. Simple questions force honest answers. 7. Never repeat yourself. If they did not respect it the first time, repeating will not help. 8. Keep your face neutral . Being unreadable removes their advantage. 9. Stay emotionally calm . Emotional reactions give people control over you. 10. Remove access quietly . Distance reveals intentions faster than confrontation. 11. Use eye contact with intention . Brief, steady eye contact signals quiet authority. 12. Say “no” directly . No explanation makes the boundary stronger ....

True intimacy of human being;  truly understood,  Intentionally chosen   Fully accepted   Genuinely preferred Deeply valued Mutually respected Actually liked Carefully heard Sincerely cared for Connection protected  Totally supported  Goals Believed in   Life values aligned  Emotionally connected   Sexually compatible   Communicate openly   Energies fresh flowing One shared fuller resonance Laughter outrageous   Light hearted silliness Protect each others solitude  No vapid verbosity  No tepid tip toeing  No childish tantrums  Challenge is never conflict   Catch your own energy early  Self regulate then co regulate   Productive never busy  SLOW DOWN TO GROW UP  Context  CURIOSITY   Subtle Sensuality  Direct  Diversity Nuance of Now Finesse is Fresh Depth is Classy  Erudite   Equanimity   Excellence  All The Multiple intelligences   D...

Spending more time with people who are comfortable with and who even enjoy being together in silence has been doing wonders for my well being.  So much is communicated in healthy silence that words could never express. The magic of mouna which is the inner silence. So much of how we think about ourselves, others and the world is attached through words and conversation. But if we take time for mouna (silence) we can uncover a much deeper, richer and fuller world.  It comes in the stillness A wordless knowing Of everything And beautifully nothing In Sanskrit, the word mouna (roughly translated) means “silence”. In its most basic essence, this can be practised as non-speaking. Mouna is often introduced in yoga retreats as a daily period of non-speaking and, at more advanced levels, as several days of silence. For many, the idea of not talking, even for a few hours, is daunting: the mind races in with questions like “ But how will I communicate?” and “What will I do with no conver...

Peace is everything. Not family, not forgiveness, not anyone’s idea of who you should be to make them feel better about you. Peace. A calm mind. A clear conscience. A heart that is carefully protected. Just…peace. To me, true intimacy is a vulnerability of the wide open and yet protected heart. A hunger for inner peace, calm listening, receiving and discernment, co created subtle depths, shared joy, insatiable curiosity, closeness, connection and a mutual consideration. From love not for love is an undeniable loyalty beyond words or attached reasons and a passionate priority of deep soul to soul connection easily shared in a comfortable simple silence. Anyone can talk about themself. Even a child knows how to gossip and chatter. So what is scarce and rare? Silence. The ability to deliberately keep yourself out of the conversation and subsist without its validation. Silence is the respite of the confident and the strong. — Ryan Holiday (@RyanHoliday) September 19, 2024

 

Four five four five four five  For 5 of your greatest creations  Children ARE the Best Presence!  🎉🥳🎊🎁 Happy Birth Day  Life Lover  🔔 ART REMAINS THE HIGHEST HOPE    sex is cool, but have you ever had someone cater to your heart intentionally — 𝚘𝚊𝚜𝚒𝚜𝚘𝚏𝚜𝚎𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚒𝚝𝚢 𓆗 (@yearofthepoets) August 9, 2024

"If I talk about Nature,  it’s not because I know what it is,  But because I love it,  And that’s why I love it,  Because when you love,  you never know what you love,  Or why you love, or what love is.  Loving is eternal innocence,  And innocence is,  not attaching to thinking." “Philosophy is the blind man's effort.  It is said:  Philosophy is a blind man in a dark room on a dark night,  searching for a black cat which is not there….”  Osho, The Secret of Secrets , Talk #4 I seek out joyous connections that nourish my soul, challenge my mind and touch my heart. pic.twitter.com/SmNG2v4Ylh — ♱ (@doortodivinity) July 15, 2024

 

  That Reality is One; though, owing to illusion, It appears to be multiple names and forms, attributes and changes, It always remains unchanged. [It is] like gold which, while remaining one, is formed into various ornaments. #AdiShankaracharya #AdiShankara — श्री Adi Shankaracharya (@ShriAdiShankara) May 28, 2024 For a complete awakening the words have to go. Robert Adams — Temet Nosce (@GnothiSea) May 28, 2024 forget the crowd. follow your instincts. — 𝚘𝚊𝚜𝚒𝚜𝚘𝚏𝚜𝚎𝚛𝚎𝚗𝚒𝚝𝚢 𓆗 (@yearofthepoets) May 28, 2024

Sex is great and essential for a real connection, but have you tried truly connecting with another person in multi dimensional ways, first? Much more meaningful to be "intimate" as in a safe held container and be able to share one's truth, without gaslighting ridicule, sharpness or off handed sarcasm. Sex becomes an expression of your complete intimacy versus a one dimensional substitute for it. Many emotionally illiterate people use sex to escape real intimacy. Go to the root of why you may fear emotional intimacy and vulnerability. Replace a surface level "one track" physical addiction with a more subtle and nuanced emotional connection.  Result? Deeper, more fulfilling sex. And holistic life. Sex is often used to mask emotional voids. Sex is often used to avoid digging a little deeper into pre existing psychological patterns and conditioning. Sex is often used as an easy, superficial substitute for a deeper heart to heart connection. That is why the transacti...

is life classic consumerism? or is it? only YOU choose... maybe you are all this & more... there is no path... really... once you realize. why so serious? unless it is... only you choose...  once you realize...

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